{"id":919,"date":"2016-12-15T18:37:25","date_gmt":"2016-12-15T18:37:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.firstlighthomecare.com\/home-healthcare-west-suburban-boston\/?p=919"},"modified":"2016-12-15T18:37:25","modified_gmt":"2016-12-15T18:37:25","slug":"capturing-treasured-stories-loved-ones-building-family-history","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.firstlighthomecare.com\/home-healthcare-west-suburban-boston\/2016\/12\/15\/capturing-treasured-stories-loved-ones-building-family-history\/","title":{"rendered":"Capturing Treasured Stories from Your Loved Ones&#8211;Building a Family History"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One of the joys of aging is sharing stories. For many older adults, stories are a connection to the past and evidence of a life well-lived. And for the families of these historians, stories are a way to preserve memories for years \u2013 and generations \u2013 to come.<\/p>\n<p>With so many family activities during the holidays, it\u2019s an ideal time to capture these treasured stories. But when it comes to building this type of family history, where do you begin? Following are some simple steps you can take to plan, capture and archive treasured stories from the older adults in your life.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"204\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-3152\" alt=\"Memories of wedding day\" src=\"https:\/\/www.firstlighthomecare.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/HoldingOldPhoto-560px-iStock-183541858_121516-300x204.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Step 1: Prepare and plan.<br \/>\n<\/strong>Before jumping in, consider the types of stories or information you\u2019d like to capture. And talk to your loved one to ensure he or she is comfortable with your plan.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Family lore:<\/strong> Is there a story family members ask your loved one to tell over and over? Archiving it can ensure it lives on forever.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Your loved one\u2019s life:<\/strong> Do you wish you knew more about your loved one\u2019s life as a child, the city where he or she was born, ancestry or other interesting elements of the family history? Interviews can help you discover new things about your loved one\u2019s past.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fascinating tales:<\/strong> Are you curious about the best trip your loved one took, what he or she was like in college, a first love, an award or honor he or she received or other fascinating topic you\u2019ve heard about, but never really explored? Digging into these tales can bring them to life in new ways.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Enduring advice:<\/strong> Is your loved one known for giving sage advice? Capture some of the best lessons by asking him or her for the best advice about certain topics. Your loved one\u2019s words of wisdom could help even future generations of the family.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Step 2: Gather needed supplies.<br \/>\n<\/strong>Determine how you will record your family historian\u2019s questions-and-answers or storytelling. Journals, family trees and scrapbooks are still widely used today. And access to a variety of technologies now give you the opportunity to capture the stories \u2013 via audio, video or both \u2013 as they\u2019re being told. Digital recordings can help capture a loved one\u2019s essence and keep it alive well into the future.<\/p>\n<p>In addition to your recording devices, also consider bringing out old family photos or heirlooms. These items can help trigger memories, prompt stories and make the conversation even more meaningful.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Step 3: Document your questions.<br \/>\n<\/strong>Think about the best questions that will help you learn about all of things you planned in Step 1. Open-ended questions are the best for encouraging storytelling. There are many online tools that can help you plan your \u201cinterview.\u201d Some of our favorite resources are included at the end of this post.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Step 4: Get comfortable and talk.<br \/>\n<\/strong>In many ways, capturing your loved one\u2019s memories is as simple as having a conversation. Once you\u2019ve decided on an approach and planned what you\u2019d like to talk about, just have a conversation. When capturing conversations digitally, it\u2019s best to select a location that\u2019s comfortable, quiet, has appealing scenery and uses good lighting.<strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Step 5: Ask for other perspectives.<br \/>\n<\/strong>They say there are two sides to every story. Or, in the case of family history, perhaps several. Consider also capturing related comments, perspectives and anecdotes from other members of the family to help enhance the accounts from the older adults in your life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Step 6: Backup, share and enjoy.<br \/>\n<\/strong>Once you\u2019ve captured your loved one\u2019s stories, be sure to have a backup: multiple copies of printed pieces and digital backup for electronic images, audio and video. Then, there are only two things left to do: <em>Share and enjoy the memories.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Get great ideas and tools.<br \/>\n<\/strong>There is a seemingly endless list of online resources that offer advice, tips and web-enabled tools to help you capture memories and create a living family history. Some of our favorites include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/storycorps.org\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">StoryCorps<\/a>: <\/strong>Since 2003, StoryCorps has been traveling the United States to record, preserve and share stories of Americans from all backgrounds. Its website includes <a href=\"https:\/\/storycorps.org\/great-questions\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">great questions and tips<\/a> to help you use its approach for your family stories.<\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.familyhistorywritingchallenge.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Family History Writing Challenge<\/a>:<\/strong> While the Family History Writing Challenge was created in 2016 as a way to encourage people to take the month of February to capture their family histories, the tools created\u00a0for the challenge are valuable and still available today.<\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/familysearch.org\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Family Search<\/a><\/strong>: Family Search provides tips for capturing stories, as well as search functionality to help uncover details of family genealogy. But unlike other resources, it also provides users with a web-based resource to store and archive their stories and family history.<\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.instructables.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Instructables<\/a> Article: <\/strong>Instructables is a website\/community created by students at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) for project and idea sharing. But it\u2019s evolved to a destination for all \u201ccreators\u201d to share ideas, how-tos and instructions. The article <a href=\"http:\/\/www.instructables.com\/id\/Record-Your-Familys-Oral-History-before-it-dies-\/?ALLSTEPS\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cRecord Your Family\u2019s Oral History \u2013 Before It Dies Out\u201d<\/a> is a detailed guide for capturing your family\u2019s memories, from a person just like you who has personal experience.<\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.familytreemagazine.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Family Tree Magazine<\/a><\/strong>: A family history publication, <em>Family Tree Magazine<\/em> provides how-to resources for discovering and preserving a family\u2019s \u201croots.\u201d Its website has a variety of articles and tools that can help you capture your memories.<\/li>\n<li>If your loved one is still able to document his or her own memories, there are volumes of <strong>diaries and journals<\/strong> out there to help them do it. We like \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Memories-My-Grandchild-Keepsake-Grandparents\/dp\/144130262X\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Memories for My Grandchild: A Keepsake to Remember<\/a>\u201d by Suzanne Zenkel and \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Letters-My-Grandchild-Treasure-Forever\/dp\/145214575X\/ref=pd_sbs_14_t_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1&amp;refRID=GEEXH7BYJ5K09HA5F8DS\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Letters to My Grandchild: Write Now. Read Later. Treasure Forever.<\/a>\u201d by Lea Redmond.<\/li>\n<li><strong>There is a professional route to take as well<\/strong>. \u00a0We can recommend a <strong><em>professional historian<\/em><\/strong>. \u00a0He\u00a0<span>helps families honor loved ones by recording and preserving their life stories\u2014as memoir books, oral histories, and documentary videos \u00a0Please contact us and we are pleased to\u00a0make a personal introduction.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Supporting family memories.<br \/>\n<\/strong>FirstLight Home Care is honored to enjoy many of the stories and memories that become a part of a family\u2019s history. Learn more about our how our services help seniors today.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the joys of aging is sharing stories. For many older adults, stories are a connection to the past and evidence of a life well-lived. And for the families of these historians, stories are a way to preserve memories for years \u2013 and generations \u2013 to come. 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