How to Talk to a Doctor About a Dementia Diagnosis: A Guide for Alameda County Families

Receiving a dementia diagnosis is one of the most disorienting experiences a family can go through. Most families leave the doctor’s office overwhelmed and unsure of next steps. This guide helps Alameda County families know what questions to ask and what resources are available.

Questions to Ask at the Diagnosis Appointment

• What type of dementia has been diagnosed, and what does that mean for progression?
• Are there medications that may slow progression or manage symptoms?
• What specialists should we see — neurologist, geriatrician, geriatric psychiatrist?
• What safety concerns should we address at home right now?
• Does my loved one qualify for the Medicare GUIDE program?

Ask About the Medicare GUIDE Program Specifically

Many physicians are not yet aware of the Medicare GUIDE program, which provides comprehensive dementia care support at no cost to eligible Traditional Medicare beneficiaries. Ask their doctor to document the diagnosis in their medical record — this is the key step that enables GUIDE enrollment. FirstLight Home Care of Alameda is an approved GUIDE program agency. Call us at (510) 954-3878.

Local Resources for Dementia Families in Alameda County

• Alzheimer’s Association — 24/7 helpline at 1-800-272-3900
• Alameda County Area Agency on Aging — local services and caregiver support
• UCSF Memory and Aging Center — specialized diagnosis and clinical care
• Alta Bates Summit Medical Center — geriatric care services in Oakland and Berkeley